In the days following Simon’s death, I remember imagining a long road trip with many scenic overlooks along the way. Most of the time, we are in such a hurry to get to our destinations that any unplanned stops along the way, simply get in the way. However, Simon’s death forced everyone to pull over, immediately. Everyone got out of their speeding cars. For a moment, the destinations were not so important. We took a deep breath, looked around, and simply appreciated.
For me, today is another stop, both figuratively and literally. I took Sally to the bus stop, as I do every morning, and saw all of the kids lining up for kindergarten. Simon was not in that line. He should be.
I know that this moment will pass. I’ll get back in my car, reach for Phyllis’ hand, turn around, and see Sally and Jaden smiling at me. That’s the good life. But for today, I’ve pulled over again, not to enjoy the scenery, but because I’m feeling a little sick.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. You are in my thoughts and prayers today. This morning, our 17 year old son started his senior year of high school which in and of itself, wouldn’t be considered a big deal. However, he suffered sudden cardiac arrest on June 16, 2009…for those that don’t understand, he died…but thankfully, he was revived by quick thinking coaches who knew what to do and the school had an AED. Your work and the work of many others throughout the nation is getting the word out and saving lives! May God continue to give you comfort and peace on your journey.
Thanks so much for your kind words. I am glad that your story ended differently than mine. I am also glad to see that your experience moved you to speak out against SCA. Keep in touch.